Bread & Wine: A Love Letter to Life Around the Table with Recipes came at just the right time to reaffirm these thoughts and convictions while inspiring and challenging me to think about how I apply these convictions.
If you've been reading this blog for a while, it's no secret that Shauna Niequist has long been a favorite author of mine. Her writing is always gut-wrenchingly honest, moving you to tears with one page and laughter on the next. Reading any memoir is like having a conversation with an old friend. She makes you feel normal by being completely transparent about her joys, trials, and struggles, becoming a real person with whom you can identify without trying.
But this book is about more than food. Jesus said that the world would know us by our love. He made us for community. And yet we so often choose to try to go it alone and be self-sufficient and end up more miserable than ever. We were made for others. And when we slow down and cherish the bread and wine of our Savior, we find genuine joy and community within the simplest of seemingly trite rituals.
We don't come to the table to fight or to defend. We don't come to prove or to conquer, to draw lines in the sand or to stir up trouble. We come to the table because our hunger brings us there. We come with a need, a fragility, with an admission of our humanity. The table is the great equalizer, the level playing field many of us have been looking for. The table is the place where the doing stops, the trying stops, the masks are removed, and we allow ourselves to be nourished, like children. We allow someone else to meet our need. In a world that prides people on not having needs, on going longer and faster, on going without, on powering through, the table is a place of safety and rest and humanity, where we are allowed to be as fragile as we feel. If the home is a body, the table is the heart, the beating center, the sustainer of life and health. Come to the table.
So often we trade convenience for community. We take for granted the people most dear to us, making plans but never following through. And we miss out. We miss out on God's desire for community and settle for less. And He wants so, so much more. He's in the midst of the mundane, and Shauna so gently and gracefully reminds us of that call to more. To expect to see Him in what we take for granted, and to live differently because of our realizations. So I highly recommend her book, and am grateful for the courage she continues to display by baring her soul to her readers and drawing them into her story.
I'll leave you with this:
Holiness abounds, should we choose to look for it. The whisper of God's Spirit are all around us, should we choose to listen for them. The building blocks of the most common meal-- the bread and the wine-- are reminders to us: "He's here! God is here, and he's good." Every time we eat, every time we gather, every time the table is filled: He's here. He's here, and he is good.
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
So a month or so ago, my best friend (well, one of them) got married. And it was joyous. Katie and I have been friends since our freshman year of college, when we were wide-eyed and naive to well, everything. Saturday, March 2, was a wonderful day. It was exceedingly cold, which none of us were excited about. But other than the snow flurries and our goose bump-ridden legs, there were no complaints, and nothing bad could be said of the day. Because when two people come together as one, there's just a whole lot of smiling to do. So here's to Katie and Will, the Marshalls, and the journey they've begun together. May it be sweeter with each passing today. I love you both.
Official (and amazingly beautiful) photos here.
|Friends reunited at the bridesmaids' luncheon on Friday afternoon.|
|Kai was really excited about her robe...|
|The Fab Four together again.|
|We were all pretty much obsessed with our bouquets...|
|Silly selfies while getting ready.|
|At this point she'd only been Mrs. Marshall for a few hours! :)|
|Cheering them all the way to Belize.|